The worst thing that can happen when you break up with your girlfriend is trying to live a life without her in it. You have been accustomed to calling her whenever you have some important news to share. You chat with her to let her know that she is missed and you made all the effort to show her that she is loved. Yet, in spite of everything that you have done for each other, the relationship has turned sour and she has left you. It is harder if you have become part of each other’s families and your family members thought that you would end up together for good. It would take a lot of adjustment for everyone involved. There are 20 questions to ask a girl when she leaves the relationship that you desperately want to ask but will you have the opportunity to ask your ex about it?
If you are in good terms with your ex or at least cordial, you may be able to ask a few questions especially if you are seeking closure from each other. As much as possible, you would like to leave the relationship whole, not broken so you can be ready to love again and find the girl of your dreams.
There are some questions that may not be related to your relationship in general such as the following:
- What did you think of my family?
- Did you really like my friends?
- Do your friends hate me?
- Does your family hate me?
- What are we going to do with the things we have given each other?
If you have cared for her family deeply, you would like to know if they still like you or if your image is already ruined because of what your ex has said about you. As much as possible, you want to keep things cordial with them especially if you did not do anything wrong. It is more common for your ex’s friends to be at odds with you for no apparent reason simply because they are sticking up for their girl.
There are also some questions that you wish you could have asked when you were still in a relationship:
- What do you really think about my body?
- Was I truly as good as you made it out to be?
- What is your favorite memory of us being together?
- What is the thing that you like least about me?
- What made you decide to turn away from our relationship?
- Did you truly love me?
- Was there a time when you thought you would be spending forever with me?
- When was the time when you decided that you do not want to make the relationship work anymore?
- Do you have any regrets about the time we spent together?
- Do you think that all of the moments we spent are just time wasted?
Since you are not going out with your ex anymore, she may become more honest about how she really thinks of you. She will be more honest in telling you if she was truly happy in the relationship or not. These are some of the 20 questions to ask a girl when she leaves the relationship but a lot of times, you cannot ask these questions directly from your ex. Asking a random girl these questions will only make you a creep.
The last five questions that you are going to ask may be questions that have been circling your mind since she left such as the following:
- Do you still think of me sometimes?
- Are there any songs, television shows or movies that remind you of me?
- Do you ever miss the way we were?
- Are you happy now? Happier as compared to when you were with me?
- Is there still a chance for us?
One of the biggest misconceptions whenever a relationship breaks is the man is able to move on immediately after the breakup. It is normal for the girl to feel sad and spend time with herself or with her friends for a while but when she moves on, she moves on for good. Typical men would show that they are okay on the outside even though they feel like breaking down on the inside. They manage to accept the breakup a little bit later. You will know if you have already moved on when you do not think about the things that might have been anymore. The questions that you have in your mind will simply stay there. Perhaps you can write them down for future reference. You may never know, you may have the opportunity to face those 20 questions to ask a girl when she leaves a relationship.
