You know it’s hard to break the ice and start conversations with women. So why not start with get to know you questions. When you guys meet a girl, you should start asking her some introductory questions and do not ask something that will make her angry or nervous. Try your best not to mess up with the girl at your first meeting.
Okay, you already know this but before asking get to know you questions, greet the girl – ask her how she is doing. Try not to act like you are so happy with your life and the stuff that is going on with you. Instead, you should ask her what’s going on in her life.
As soon as she answered to your question, you can tell a little about yourself and don’t try to show your greatness at all. Secondly, you should ask her about her family or about herself.
Queries to ask in getting to know her are:
- Where is the place you feel like you can be yourself the most?
- Who is the closest person in your family and to you of course?
- How many siblings or family members are there in your family?
Here you should start being friendly or show her that you are really feeling comfortable with the conversation going on between you two.
Next, you will proceed with some “get to know you questions” about general things in life:
- What dreams do you have for your life?
- If you have only a day to live, what’s the first thing that you want to do?
- What things make you smile most?
- Do you like presents?
After you had a short but comfortable conversation, you can go into a more personal conversation. You can start with these questions:
- Do you believe in soul mates?
- What characteristics do you look for in a soul mate?
- What makes you fall for someone or be in love with him?
- Did you believe in love at first sight?
- Do you believe in the fate of love?
After some inquiries and replies, you should stop and have a drink or go out to eat. Just don’t try to ask several questions to her at once or she can easily get annoyed. After a short break, you can continue your discussion and chit chat again.
- Are you in love with someone or do you know the meaning of love?
- Do you have a crush on someone?
Be friendly with her here. Don’t ask something that sounds flirty or makes her feel uncomfortable.
After this, you should try some “about love” queries:
- Do you believe in true love?
- Do you ever have a feeling that you love someone so much that you can’t live without him? Do you envision living without a person that you love the most?
These questions will surely pop up in her mind about yourself too but you should try to share with her in short as much as she share with you. Don’t try to be too excited. Try to control your excitement and emotions in the midst of your chit chat with her.
Other Questions:
- What’s your favorite movie or TV show?
- Do you ever talk to a stranger like this?
Remember one thing guys, if you really want to get to know a girl seriously, you should give her your full attention as girls do not like being distracted by anyone during an interesting conversation. If this happens, then you have no one to blame but yourself. So, while asking get to know you questions, give your full attention to her. In the end, if you become more interested in her and like to have another meeting, then you must let her know.
If you really like the way your conversation is going with her, show her that you care and do not be afraid to let her know it so she can anticipate the next meeting.
So guys, best of luck for your first or next date! How did the above-stated tricks and questions help you in winning the heart of your favorite girl? Make us aware of your experience by leaving your comments below.
