So ladies, you met a new guy through sending letters to various parts of the world or perhaps in different states. Sending letters may be considered old school now but there is still something cute and exciting about getting handwritten letters from someone new. If you have a guy pen pal, you should know some interesting questions to ask a guy in a letter. This will ensure that the person is going to respond.
If you would appear boring through your letters, do you think that a guy would actually make the effort to respond? Sending a letter through the post office now is considered to be tedious as compared to sending a message through chat or text. You truly need to have a list of interesting questions to ask a guy so that they will at least be compelled to reply.
Take note that the questions do not have to be romantic in nature at the beginning. You can ask fresh and absorbing questions that will make the guy think. At the same time, guys would love to talk about things concerning themselves especially if you are a person that a guy is only starting to get to know.
There are different reasons why you need to keep the questions interesting:
- You want to keep the conversation going because you are interested in the person.
- You want to receive longer letters from the person.
- You genuinely want to get to know more about the person and what he does.
Now that you understand the need to have interesting questions to ask a guy in a letter, here are some of the questions that you should ask:
- If your house was on fire, what three items would you save?
The reason why this question works is because you can get to know more about the person based on the items that he would choose to save. If he chooses to save his game console, you know that he is a gamer. If he chooses to save his television set, he may like to watch television. There are also some guys who would save items that are sentimental to them – and this is always cute ladies….
- What is the strangest date that you have had so far?
This will give you information about the date that the guy considers to be the absolute worst. He may talk about how the girl he was with kept on quoting bible phrases and making snide remarks to women who dressed sexy. The memory can make any guy laugh especially since the date is long over. He might even talk about what he did afterwards.
- Do you honestly like surprises?
It may come as a surprise to you but not a lot of people enjoy surprises. There are some guys (and girls too) who would find it very hard to appreciate if they are surprised to go to a destination that is so far away from home or if they would be surprised with a date when they have already planned the things that they have to do. By knowing if the guy likes surprises or not, you can understand the person better.
- What do you consider to be your most memorable birthday?
This will again tell you a little bit more about the things that the guy has gone through. There may be some guys who will respond that they never enjoyed their birthdays and there may also be some who will say that each birthday is wonderful because they spent it with the people they love. You will learn more about the guy by asking this question.
- What do you think is an ideal weekend getaway?
No matter what people say regarding their lack of time to go on vacations and other stuff, they would be happy to get away from the stresses and problems of every day life. You can get to know if the person loves the beach, would rather hike up the mountains, or stay in a plush hotel for a vacation.
Here are some more questions that you can ask:
- What is your favorite holiday?
- What is one thing about your culture that you are extremely proud of?
- What is one dish that you can eat every day?
- Are you more of an introvert or extrovert?
- Do you have a favorite quote that you want to share?
- If you could grant one wish, what would it be?
- Would you ever skydive?
- Do you read books?
- What is your favorite movie?
- What is one place that you want to visit?
There are still a lot of other interesting questions to ask a guy. Make sure that you are creative. It will make a lot of difference.
