A lot of men love chasing girls. They know that it is thrilling and challenging to win girls over. This probably explains why some men normally fall out of love when girls are readily available (which means they were never in love anyways). There are some women who know this and if you do not know the signs a girl likes you – when playing hard to get, you may get extremely confused.
Perhaps the girl is testing you. She wants to see just how much you truly like her. She would like to see just how much attention you are willing to give her. When she sees that you want to be committed to her, she will seem uninterested but somehow, you know that she enjoys the attention she is getting from you. Girls have a lot of tricks up their sleeves. They would like to make sure that you are serious. Girls know that a lot of men pursue attractive girls just because they can and not because they truly like the girls they are pursuing.
When you are truly interested in a girl, you want to show her that you truly like her but the signals she has been giving you are quite mixed. How will you know if a girl is just playing hard to get or is truly interested? You can get to know through the signs a girl likes you.
- She does not respond to your texts and chat messages for hours but once she does, she replies immediately and you can have long conversations with each other.
The girl wants to make sure that she is not showing that she is always available. She makes it a point to show you that she has a lot of things to do. When she’s busy, she will not drop everything just to text you. She shows you that even if she is interested, getting her will not be easy. You have to work hard for it.
- She’s hot then she’s cold.
There are times when she will show you that she likes you when she looks into your eyes when you talk to her. She may be touchy at times too and you feel that your efforts are going somewhere. But then, she may sometimes not reply to your texts. It can be very frustrating for you because you do not know if she’s just playing with you. If you truly like her, you can be patient with her or you may want her to tell you straight-up if she likes you or not.
- She makes an effort to look great around you.
There is one thing that you should know – girls will not care for their appearance when they are with someone that they do not want to impress. If the girl sees you as a friend, you will see her at her worst. She will not even make the effort to comb her hair. If she is interested in you, you will notice that she’s always wearing flattering clothes that will make you even more interested. This is definitely one of the signs a girl likes you – when playing hard to get.
- She makes it a point to mention other men who may also be pursuing her.
One thing you should know about a girl who is playing hard to get; she will do her best to show you that she will not be easy to pursue especially since there may be a lot of other men who are actively trying to get to know her too. It will make you pursue her even harder because you know that the chance that she will be taken by someone else is possible.
- You are always unsure about how she feels about you.
Even though she has never actively said that she is also interested in you, she also does not deny that she likes you. She may act pretty guarded but you will not hear her say that she does not like the fact that you are pursuing her. If she does not like you at all, you will know. She will tell you that she likes someone else or she sees you just as a friend.
There are a lot of signs that a girl likes you – but remember that you can always tell if she is interested based on her body language when she is with you. Her body language will be hard to control.
