There are many clues in texts that can depict a girl’s feelings. A careful observance of those may actually enable you to understand how she is feeling about you. This often seems like a tricky job but it’s quite simple with some of the techniques we will explain. Here are some ways on how to tell if a girl likes you over text.
The Start:
First get to notice how she starts the conversations and how frequently does she start. There may be some obvious hints hidden in it. If a girl is always the first to start the conversation with you, chances are more likely that she considers you her friend and nothing more. A girl who has some real feelings will try not to appear too needy or clingy. She will be behaving casually most of the times. But if none of the conversations are started by her, it’s a clear sign that she may not be interested at all.
The End:
Notice the way she ends the conversations with you. If she just stops in between without notifying you or saying a goodbye, the probability is that she is not interested. If she says a ‘goodbye’ or tells you the reasons like, “I have to go because someone’s calling” or “It is my time for the gym”; things like these manifest that she is concerned about telling you the little details of her life. This can be taken as a positive sign from her side.
Emoticons:
The emoticons used in a text can also tell a lot about the feelings of a person. A girl who is interested in you or trying to be flirty will be using more of the wink emoticons. There could be similar emoticons like hugs and hearts. You can also count how frequently she is using such emoticons. These usually give a signal about her being interested in you or she likes to have text conversations with you. The simple plain texts with no emoticons or rarely one or two smileys may be an indication on lack of interest or feelings.
How to Tell if a Girl likes you over Text depend on the Conversation:
The length and the topics of the conversations are also important to take notice of or the way she replies to your conversations. Does she asks more questions from you about the little details or quickly turns over the topic to herself and end the convo? The former is a sign that she wants to know more about you and may like you. The later shows that she is just being friendly with no actual emotions. How often she replies to your texts also gives a clue. If she is always responding in an interesting manner and continuing the conversations while adding more fun to it, this shows her positive feelings towards you. On the other head if she is super-quick with replies like “k”, “will see”, etc., the short conversations may be a sign that she isn’t much interested in prolonging the conversation.
The Content:
See the content of her texts. If she frequently asks you personal questions like your hobbies, your favorite food, how often you go for eating-out, lifestyle, or about your family, this is a good sign and shows her interest in digging out the greater details about you. If she recalls the little details you told her and ask questions like, “You talked about starting gym today, did you go?” Or, “How was your day today at the office”, “What sort of movies you like?” Questions like these are often a clue suggesting that she has got some real feelings about you. If the topics of your conversations are more about the assignments, the teachers, or political talk, this suggests a general friendship mode with no deeper emotions of connection.
The Punctuations:
The punctuations, especially the exclamation marks are used to show the intensity of the words. If she is often using “Hellooo!!”or “Heyyy!!”, this shows the excitement to start the conversation. Also, notice the use of words and consonants. If she is using more of the words like “yes” or “I like it”, this indicates her interest in the conversation.
Hints:
She may be actually dropping some real hints like, “I am going to XYZ restaurant tonight. Would you like to join?” or “I also have to go to ABC place tomorrow – will meet you over there!” These text lines show that she may actually be trying to have a deeper connection and more real-time chats then just the text messages. This shows the profound feelings she possesses and may be trying to develop a stronger connection with you.
These are surefire signs on how to tell if a girl likes you over text.
