So… there is this really cute girl that you have come across in your life. She is everything that you ever dreamed of and you are eager to make your moves on her. Then again, you are just eager to know her better, just to see where it will go.
This is a situation that every single guy will come across at one point or another in his life. And when the situation does arrive, it is very likely that one will end up getting stopped in their tracks wondering what to ask a girl. After all, the one thing that will probably scare most guys in the world is approaching her in the first place.
There are many reasons for this. Out of them all, the one issue that matters more to guys than anything else, goes along the lines of, “What to ask a girl?”
This is an issue that almost any guy can relate to. Every single guy out there has at one time or another come across a situation where he is in close proximity with a girl, only to find out that he couldn’t talk to her because he didn’t know what to say. In other words, it can be said to a very high degree of certainty, that most guys really don’t know what to ask a girl.
It certainly sounds rather silly when you think about it from a logical point of view, but at the same time makes perfect sense when looked at from an emotional one. People are at the end of the day emotional beings, with some logic thrown in here and there, which greatly leads to a decrease in one’s ability to communicate with people, never mind girls that they may be attracted to.
The above problems are of course merely symptoms of a much deeper issue, which has to do with things like low self-esteem, body-image issues, past experiences, personal problems, etc. Regardless, it would certainly help to have some backup questions to have on hand should the occasion ever come where they are needed.
Given below are some amazingly cute and flirty questions that will go a long way to enhance your experience with a girl:
- What’s your name?
- Are you single or in a relationship?
- Do you have a boyfriend?
- What would be the most romantic thing according to you?
- What’s your most favorite animal?
- If you could date any celebrity in the world, who would it be?
- Have you ever seen or met a celebrity?
- If you had to choose between fame and money, which of the two would you prefer?
- Do you have a bucket list?
- What is the most important thing on your bucket list?
- Can you keep a secret or do you tend to gossip about it with everyone else?
- How often do you go out with your friends?
- What was the best present that you have ever got so far?
- Do you believe in true love?
- Do you think that true love is found or created?
- Do you believe in destiny?
- Do you believe in soul mates?
- Do you believe in fate or free will?
- Do you go clubbing?
- Do you believe in astrology?
- What’s your zodiac sign?
- What is your biggest fear in life?
- Do you like to chase or be chased?
- Have you ever proposed to any guy in your life?
- How many dates have you ever had?
- At what age did you have your first boyfriend?
- How many boyfriends have you had so far?
- At what age did you have your first kiss?
- Can you ever truly be ‘just’ friends with a girl?
- Should your spouse be your best friend?
- Do you think that marrying your best friend is a great idea?
- Are you a realist or an idealist when it comes to relationships?
- Do you like kids?
- If you were to ever have kids, how many do you want?
- What does motherhood mean to you?
- Would you prefer family over career or the other way around?
- What would be your ideal honeymoon destination?
- What is your fantasy vacation?
- What would you do if you had all the money you ever wanted?
- What does feminism mean to you?
- Do you believe in divorce?
- Where do you want to be proposed for marriage by your man?
- What according to you is an ideal life?
- What do you feel is the best way to live?
The above questions are but a general idea about the kind of questions that one can ask during a conversation with a girl. It should save you from the old dilemma of wondering what to ask a girl.
If you were patient enough to read through the long list, you will notice that some of them are silly, while others tend to be very personal. Make sure that you ask her questions based on your comfort level with each other and other things like context and location.
Always remember though that the best way to know a girl is through deep conversations, rather than a one on one question round. Keep in mind that you are trying to woo and not interrogate her; she is the object of your desire, not a crime suspect.
If you get this part right, it should put you light years ahead of most guys out there. Build up your game a little bit more and before you know it, she will become yours!
